Since the passing of my father, much of the responsibility of his came upon my shoulder.
It happened so, I believed due to my being as the eldest among the males.
Added to that maybe the social achievement that I might have made.
Social structure does influence the design of a family set up. I put a fair guess.
And I also have the fair intentions to support mother, siblings and grandchildren.
To keeping alive the family traditions that Father has trained us to it.
To provide the fullest support to mother in binding the family.
In a male dominated society, the male elder does need to step up.
Today and the Yesterdays, I have heard families that have their own sad tales.
Troubles love to lurk, exert itself and disconnect families.
It is upsetting that people sometimes go length with the cumbersome load.
Now, decoding the existence of turbulence in any family.
I believe, strongly believe that leadership is a prime factor,
to understand and undo the existence of any disorder which may
find roots in the family that desire to excel.
The family can construct a house, but may failed to build a home.
Overlooking contributions made by family can hurt feelings.
An actionable leader is what the other members in any herd looked upon.
The social animal has thus follow the ways of the nature.
There are pains that are bored alone.
You see the need of silence and an idle mouth.
And when the weather is fair, all is well.
Come may some quarrel, but should be settled inside the home.
Counting each person's efforts and recognising them are flavour of love.
Loving silently is a sign of mature love.
Love binds and preaching love by action speaks volumes.
The heart feels that,
The footsteps of father will always be a large one to fill.
And I am still so lost...
